Friday, October 29, 2010

Causes Of Abandoned Babies

EXTREME CELEBRATION OF EVENTS
The occasions were celebrated in an extreme manner and encouraged liberal socializing and free sex, which resulted in the act of dumping babies. the celebrations, which originated from the West, did not “sit well with our country’s traditions Eg : Valentine’s day , birthday party , etc.

SEXUAL ABUSE
Dumped their babies often because they felt betrayed and used by their child's father to be pregnant as a result of sexual abuse, baby when born is some times disposed off after or even before birth.

LACK OF SEX KNOWLEDGE
Poor knowledge on reproductive health like menstrual cycle and healthcare during pregnancy. Usage of contraceptive

LOOSE SOCIAL PROBLEM
Social control system was loosening up due to high phase of modernisation and development neighbourliness, which should become an agent of social control to curtail social ills, was also waning. Schools are no longer sensitive to what is happening in the social and physical environment of their students as they are engrossed in examination result

POOR PARENTAL MODELLING
Don’t give full attention to their children as today many parents are expect their children are good enough too busy with their jobs Conflict in the family kicked out of youth to find a place and friends can help overcome life

PORNOGRAPHY
Easy access to pornography Eg : Internet , cyber dating, 3D games, pirate CDs Teenagers easily influenced

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Ohh Babe ... What HAppen

No study has been done in Malaysia to determine the real causes of teenage pregnancies. But the famous reasons given are the lack of sex education and the internet. Statistic from National Registration Department reveal that between 2000 and 2008, about 257 000 babies were registered without the names of their fathers on the birth certificates. This means average 88 babies were born out of wedlock each day during these nine years. Another statistic from Women Ministry revealed cases of abandoned babies numbered 407 over the past five year. But these statistic cannot tell us the full story yet, WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE !!!

They Need Help, Not Punisment

It take two people to produce a baby. why is the man absolved of responsibility. Why about counselling for the father, teaching them to be more responsible. The goverment has directed police to classify baby dumping, leading to the death of the child, as murder. And who the murderer be? the unwed teen mother of course, the father gets free, this is so unjustice. Perhaps there is something to be learned, mothers who dump babies need help, NOT JAIL !!!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

solutions that might help

in solving all of this chaos n problems, i think we r all holding a big,important responsibility. yes,each of us.baby abandonment is now a big matter that rily need attention.

for the government,including mass media n so on..all the entertainment which can lead to social problems like this should be banned from being published.the same goes to all the clubs and pubs.all those who r selling the liquor without liscence also should be punished.cooperation with all the religion agency is also important in handling this problem.
praying campaign also seems good to be held among islam students as in islam, praying is one of method to avoid the wrong and sinfull things.

in family intitutiones,each members in the family should have a very strong relationship with each others.this will not make teenagers nowadays go and find another entertainment outside as they feel there r no happiness in the house among the family.teenagers nowadays are very influenced by their frenz and collegues.they r now in time to have as much fun as they can without thinking of the risks at all.not enough attention and love from the parents and family,,that what makes baby abandonment increasing day by day.as they r free to make frenz wif anyone else.

so that's how we all can help in handling this problems of baby abandonment that seems like have no way out.i hope all of us will take part playing our own role helping those in needed.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Effects of Baby Abandonment

There are three effects of Baby dumping.That is effects on individuals, the Baby and society. The effect of individuals is cause by illegal way of aborting the child and left a bad effect on them because of the wrong path, they use to abort the baby just like herbs and alcoholic substances.So, the individual will have high risk of death caused by bleeding and infection on mothers womb's. A professional consultant Gynecology, Prof. Dr. Harlina Halizah Siraj, from "Hospital Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia"(HUKM),said this illegal abortion does not take into account the health's aspects could cause harm because it does not follow the procedure that are conducted by unprofessional groups. Another way is dangerous and is not clean by inserting foreign objects into the womb. Women involved who do abortion without proper medical procedures take high risks facing death following infection and bleeding in the uterus. In addition, it is potentially experiencing bleeding in the stomach which can cause the woman unconscious or worse death. Womb also suffered injuries when doing an abortion because those who perform them are traditionally not qualified will use sharp objects such as wood, twigs or wooden sticks. Bleeding sometimes can not be detected quickly, but take a long time. There are not aware of them until they bleed unconscious.

Dr Zainul said, the long period of time, it is difficult for pregnant women to do abortion because the process can also cause bowel and uterus problems when sticks channel ovarian one clogged. If a woman is pregnant she may experience a pregnancy outside the womb. For those who had suffered injuries before, the uterus can rupture according to the statistics of death among infants who are not removed by those spontaneously and cause death.Otherwise, the effects of abortion also can cause psychological effects on the mental and emotions after marriage, especially depression, especially when age is often thought of as the content is never removed. Dysphonic effects include experience in the womb, which raised pain more than experience during the menstrual process.

EFFECT ON INFANTS
*Infant mortality rate is higher due to medical care is not perfect
* according to statistics infant mortality by unresponsible person in 2 years ago, had increased 135 case from 2008 to 2009.
*cause contempt, regarded by society as adults
*problem if you want to marry because there is no guardian
*difficult for schools because there is no birth registration


EFFECTS ON SOCIETY
-Cause the abortion will be mimicked by others.
most cases of baby dumping in the county are using the same way that removes a newborn baby into the trash. This shows there is replication of their cruel way to remove the baby into the the trash.
-the case has become wide.
-negative views from society.

Saturday, September 25, 2010

FACTORS LEADING TOWARDS BABY ABANDONMENT

Nowadays, we r facing a serious problem that seems to getting bigger day by day. BABY ABANDONMENT. and if we think of this problem more seriously, we will see so many factors causing baby abandonment getting worst.

I think, the most important factors that should have been given attention is the today's free-sex lifestyle that our teenagers dun take it as serious.they think there will no problems will be created becoz of dat. all is about getting towards their slut. what a shame. hm maybe there are some of us say like 'maybe they are immatured'. what the point of saying that..? i dun think that can be a good reason to argue with why do they behave like dat. even a 13 years old child alredy know that free-sex lifestyle is an unhealthy one.

then, i do believe family play a very important role in handling this problems and at the same time helping in decreasing the percentage of baby abandonment. family break-up will lead to this getting-worse problems among teenagers. how do they take place? it is when they are in a chaotic family. almost teenagers cant cope with those arguments and fights, they will keep hanging out with their friends and collegues in order to have fun and releasing all their problems they're facing at home. in situation like this when parents always juz left thier responsibilities to their childrens.



in addition, religious education is necessary to all of us in our life. no matter what religion are we in, they are the same. without religion we will have no guidance in what we have to do and not to do. nowadays, we are focusing to0 much on our achievement in examination, daily activities and so on.but we always forget about the most important in our life..our religion. if we're fallowing the rite path, i can tell that all this social problems like this can be easily handled. or even dissappear at all.

but, all of factors contributing above will not give any meaning or a small impact at all if we ourselves have our very own conciousness and awareness of those problems. so,,all that is happening around are actually come from ourselves. try not to blame others. look at ourselves first. ok? ;)

.nur.alia.omar.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Baby abandonments in Malaysia


CHILD is a priceless gift from Allah SWT. However, baby abandonment is a social crisis and has a chronic increase as many cases are occurring in Malaysian society. The baby abondonment refers to discarding or leaving alone, for an extended period of time, a child younger than 12 months of age in a public or private setting with the intent to dispose of the child.

Based on Bukit Aman Police Headquarters statistics found a total of 580 babies were found dumped between year 2000 to 2006. This number of cases increase every year where as much as 65
baby abandonment cases has increased to 83 cases in the year 2006. In the first 5 months, almost everyday there are reports on dumped baby cases.You read it on the front page of the newspaper or see it on the nightly news...a newborn baby found in a back alley. This scenario had been more serious from day to day although there are a lot about this in the mass media.

Mostly,among teenagers always seen to be involved in this situation. Teenage parents give birth in a motel room and leave the child for dead in a dumpster. A girl gives birth in a school bathroom at night. throws the baby into the garbage or in the toilet.These stories relate to one of the most frightening realities of our culture today: some children are viewed as problems to be thrown away rather than gifts to be treasured.
More recently, the tragedy of
baby abandonment has begun to be addressed by state legislatures throughout the nation. For example, a number of states have passed laws to provide funding, care, and services for dumped children. These legislative actions have also established 'safe houses' - public centers such as fire stations, police stations, and other public areas where women can bring unwanted children rather then leave them in trash receptacles.

The hope is that, by offering an alternative to
dumping, women might leave their children with people who can help the baby. Surprisingly, these cases have got a lot of attention from the community. So, what are the best opinions and ways that should be taken to prevent this scenario from spreading?

Post by : Sharifah Nuratiqah

DeFiNiTiOn Of BABY ABANDONMENT


The complexity of the issues surrounding baby abandonment is deepened by confusion about the precise definition of abandonment.

The phrase abandoned babies has been used in many different ways.

It has a specific statutory meaning in the Abandoned Infants Assistance Act (P.L. 100-505, 1988; amended in P.L. 102-236, 1991), which refers to babies who are born in hospitals but do not go home with their parents due to parental drug abuse, HIV/AIDS infection, or other child protection issues.

The phrase has a different, broader meaning in common speech, where it typically refers to babies who are not born in hospitals and are left in unsafe places by their parents.1 There is a separate group of children who are defined as abandoned by state law. The many categories of children labelled abandoned leads to confusion. Although it may be impossible to change the naming of these groups in common parlance,advocates must be aware of the potential confusion.

Recent attention to the problem of abandoned babies, and subsequent legislative remedies, are responses to the often-publicized stories of babies left in unsafe public places. Despite the lack of a clear definition, this is a clear problem.

Therefore, in this BLOG, the phrase baby abandonment refers to discarding or leaving alone, for an extended period of time, a child younger than 12 months of age in a public or private setting with the intent to dispose of the child, and abandoned babies refers to children who have been treated in this manner. This definition is not necessarily shared by all states and communities. In fact, definitions vary widely across the country.

Post by : Sharifah Nuratiqah

Monday, August 9, 2010

a warm welcome from me :)

hai guyss ;)..here, i want to introduce myself first..my name is Nurzulaika Binti Mohd Bidin,u can call me ECAR,not 'kereta' but ika,hehehe..i come from Machang Kelantan..now i'm taking linguistic course at Pusat Pengajian Bahasa & Linguistik,UKM Bangi..i'm happy with my new life here b'coz i got a lot of friends from another states n also i'm proud to be a part of undergraduate from UKM..i hope i can become one of the successful student..i think that's all from me..keep me in touch yeah ;)

me n myself n i =D

hi everyone !
I'm Alia..Nur Alia.hmm,,Nur Alia Omar actually.I duno y..but I rily like to write my name.XD ok2,,not to bebbling,i'll proceed.i am 19 last 26th of May,and i came from Pasir Gudang, Johor Bahru.no need to mention my actual address i think.#) Here,in UKM I'm majoring in linguistic.wat a give.I love it much.-'so far..'- hee~
hmm enough for now..wanna noe more? juz ask me.. ;)
so let us discuss about dis kind of serious problems we are facing nowadays.baby abandonment.baby dumping.wut a pity them..seems like there's no way out..hmm,,but together we can,maybe..?hopefully..

Introduction of my selF

Hello, Assalamualaikum & Selamat Sejahtera

Let me introduce myself first, my name is
Khairul Izwan Bin Maskan A112743 , i'm a third year student at Faculty of Science Social & Humanity in National Univercity of Malaysia (UKM). Major in Psychology.

My hometown is in Muar Johor, one of a district in north Johor. But right now during in UKM i live in Kolej Dato Onn. I'm the third child of four siblings, i have two brothers named Izan and Hafiz, and the youngest is a my sister named Fatin. My father's Maskan Bin Kaswadi work in Department of Wildlife, meanwhile my mother's Gihaa Bte Harun is a nurse.


My hobbies is watching movies, chatting, surfing the internet especially facebook, news website, political blogs and youtube. Since we have internet connection in our residential college, i always downloading movies & dramas, so i didn't need to go to cinema anymore if i want to watch movie hehehe ... =)


Other than that, i also like to watch European football matches, especially English Premier League and European Champions League. I'm so excited to see football Stars like Waynee Rooney, Steven Gerard, Frank Lampard, Fernando Torres and Fabreagas show their talent and football skills.


Finally, as a psychology student, my ambition is to be a counselor or a teacher who can counsel students. Nowadays so many social problems involving teenagers, and most of them are still in school, this situation was very worrying. So it led my friends and i to discuss one of the hot topic recently "
Baby Abandonment"

Post by : Khairul Izwan bin Maskan

InTrODucTIoNs


Hai everyone...hello n welcome to our blog, wecares04...as an introduction we would like to introduce our team members...

They are four of us,
KHAIRUL IZWAN BIN MASKAN (Department of psychology and human development),
SHARIFAH NUR ATIQAH BINTI JAMIL (Department of psychology and human development),NUR ALIA BINTI OMAR (Department of languages and linguistic),
NURZULAIKA BINTI MOHD BIDIN (Department of languages and linguistic)...

This blog is to discuss the topic n issues of BABY ABANDONMENT
...Baby dumping is a crime. It occurs as a result of unwanted pregnancies. Many teens are pregnant out of wedlock had to remove their baby desperately, due to shame and fear of the consequences that will occur.

Our
objectives is to study the current situations on this issue, to look forward the main factors that causes this issue, to discuss on whom to blame and what has been done to over come this issue and to find out the best solutions in order to minimize this problems...

We welcome anyone to share your opinions in this blog...

Post by : sharifah nuratiqah