Causes Of Abandoned Babies
EXTREME CELEBRATION OF EVENTS
The occasions were celebrated in an extreme manner and encouraged liberal socializing and free sex, which resulted in the act of dumping babies. the celebrations, which originated from the West, did not “sit well with our country’s traditions Eg : Valentine’s day , birthday party , etc.
SEXUAL ABUSE
Dumped their babies often because they felt betrayed and used by their child's father to be pregnant as a result of sexual abuse, baby when born is some times disposed off after or even before birth.
LACK OF SEX KNOWLEDGE
Poor knowledge on reproductive health like menstrual cycle and healthcare during pregnancy. Usage of contraceptive
LOOSE SOCIAL PROBLEM
Social control system was loosening up due to high phase of modernisation and development neighbourliness, which should become an agent of social control to curtail social ills, was also waning. Schools are no longer sensitive to what is happening in the social and physical environment of their students as they are engrossed in examination result
POOR PARENTAL MODELLING
Don’t give full attention to their children as today many parents are expect their children are good enough too busy with their jobs Conflict in the family kicked out of youth to find a place and friends can help overcome life
PORNOGRAPHY
Easy access to pornography Eg : Internet , cyber dating, 3D games, pirate CDs Teenagers easily influenced
Friday, October 29, 2010
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Ohh Babe ... What HAppen
No study has been done in Malaysia to determine the real causes of teenage pregnancies. But the famous reasons given are the lack of sex education and the internet. Statistic from National Registration Department reveal that between 2000 and 2008, about 257 000 babies were registered without the names of their fathers on the birth certificates. This means average 88 babies were born out of wedlock each day during these nine years. Another statistic from Women Ministry revealed cases of abandoned babies numbered 407 over the past five year. But these statistic cannot tell us the full story yet, WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE !!!
They Need Help, Not Punisment
It take two people to produce a baby. why is the man absolved of responsibility. Why about counselling for the father, teaching them to be more responsible. The goverment has directed police to classify baby dumping, leading to the death of the child, as murder. And who the murderer be? the unwed teen mother of course, the father gets free, this is so unjustice. Perhaps there is something to be learned, mothers who dump babies need help, NOT JAIL !!!
Thursday, October 7, 2010
solutions that might help
in solving all of this chaos n problems, i think we r all holding a big,important responsibility. yes,each of us.baby abandonment is now a big matter that rily need attention.
for the government,including mass media n so on..all the entertainment which can lead to social problems like this should be banned from being published.the same goes to all the clubs and pubs.all those who r selling the liquor without liscence also should be punished.cooperation with all the religion agency is also important in handling this problem.
praying campaign also seems good to be held among islam students as in islam, praying is one of method to avoid the wrong and sinfull things.
in family intitutiones,each members in the family should have a very strong relationship with each others.this will not make teenagers nowadays go and find another entertainment outside as they feel there r no happiness in the house among the family.teenagers nowadays are very influenced by their frenz and collegues.they r now in time to have as much fun as they can without thinking of the risks at all.not enough attention and love from the parents and family,,that what makes baby abandonment increasing day by day.as they r free to make frenz wif anyone else.
so that's how we all can help in handling this problems of baby abandonment that seems like have no way out.i hope all of us will take part playing our own role helping those in needed.
for the government,including mass media n so on..all the entertainment which can lead to social problems like this should be banned from being published.the same goes to all the clubs and pubs.all those who r selling the liquor without liscence also should be punished.cooperation with all the religion agency is also important in handling this problem.
praying campaign also seems good to be held among islam students as in islam, praying is one of method to avoid the wrong and sinfull things.
in family intitutiones,each members in the family should have a very strong relationship with each others.this will not make teenagers nowadays go and find another entertainment outside as they feel there r no happiness in the house among the family.teenagers nowadays are very influenced by their frenz and collegues.they r now in time to have as much fun as they can without thinking of the risks at all.not enough attention and love from the parents and family,,that what makes baby abandonment increasing day by day.as they r free to make frenz wif anyone else.
so that's how we all can help in handling this problems of baby abandonment that seems like have no way out.i hope all of us will take part playing our own role helping those in needed.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Effects of Baby Abandonment
There are three effects of Baby dumping.That is effects on individuals, the Baby and society. The effect of individuals is cause by illegal way of aborting the child and left a bad effect on them because of the wrong path, they use to abort the baby just like herbs and alcoholic substances.So, the individual will have high risk of death caused by bleeding and infection on mothers womb's. A professional consultant Gynecology, Prof. Dr. Harlina Halizah Siraj, from "Hospital Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia"(HUKM),said this illegal abortion does not take into account the health's aspects could cause harm because it does not follow the procedure that are conducted by unprofessional groups. Another way is dangerous and is not clean by inserting foreign objects into the womb. Women involved who do abortion without proper medical procedures take high risks facing death following infection and bleeding in the uterus. In addition, it is potentially experiencing bleeding in the stomach which can cause the woman unconscious or worse death. Womb also suffered injuries when doing an abortion because those who perform them are traditionally not qualified will use sharp objects such as wood, twigs or wooden sticks. Bleeding sometimes can not be detected quickly, but take a long time. There are not aware of them until they bleed unconscious.
Dr Zainul said, the long period of time, it is difficult for pregnant women to do abortion because the process can also cause bowel and uterus problems when sticks channel ovarian one clogged. If a woman is pregnant she may experience a pregnancy outside the womb. For those who had suffered injuries before, the uterus can rupture according to the statistics of death among infants who are not removed by those spontaneously and cause death.Otherwise, the effects of abortion also can cause psychological effects on the mental and emotions after marriage, especially depression, especially when age is often thought of as the content is never removed. Dysphonic effects include experience in the womb, which raised pain more than experience during the menstrual process.
EFFECT ON INFANTS
*Infant mortality rate is higher due to medical care is not perfect
* according to statistics infant mortality by unresponsible person in 2 years ago, had increased 135 case from 2008 to 2009.
*cause contempt, regarded by society as adults
*problem if you want to marry because there is no guardian
*difficult for schools because there is no birth registration
EFFECTS ON SOCIETY
-Cause the abortion will be mimicked by others.
most cases of baby dumping in the county are using the same way that removes a newborn baby into the trash. This shows there is replication of their cruel way to remove the baby into the the trash.
-the case has become wide.
-negative views from society.
Dr Zainul said, the long period of time, it is difficult for pregnant women to do abortion because the process can also cause bowel and uterus problems when sticks channel ovarian one clogged. If a woman is pregnant she may experience a pregnancy outside the womb. For those who had suffered injuries before, the uterus can rupture according to the statistics of death among infants who are not removed by those spontaneously and cause death.Otherwise, the effects of abortion also can cause psychological effects on the mental and emotions after marriage, especially depression, especially when age is often thought of as the content is never removed. Dysphonic effects include experience in the womb, which raised pain more than experience during the menstrual process.
EFFECT ON INFANTS
*Infant mortality rate is higher due to medical care is not perfect
* according to statistics infant mortality by unresponsible person in 2 years ago, had increased 135 case from 2008 to 2009.
*cause contempt, regarded by society as adults
*problem if you want to marry because there is no guardian
*difficult for schools because there is no birth registration
EFFECTS ON SOCIETY
-Cause the abortion will be mimicked by others.
most cases of baby dumping in the county are using the same way that removes a newborn baby into the trash. This shows there is replication of their cruel way to remove the baby into the the trash.
-the case has become wide.
-negative views from society.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
FACTORS LEADING TOWARDS BABY ABANDONMENT
Nowadays, we r facing a serious problem that seems to getting bigger day by day. BABY ABANDONMENT. and if we think of this problem more seriously, we will see so many factors causing baby abandonment getting worst.
I think, the most important factors that should have been given attention is the today's free-sex lifestyle that our teenagers dun take it as serious.they think there will no problems will be created becoz of dat. all is about getting towards their slut. what a shame. hm maybe there are some of us say like 'maybe they are immatured'. what the point of saying that..? i dun think that can be a good reason to argue with why do they behave like dat. even a 13 years old child alredy know that free-sex lifestyle is an unhealthy one.
then, i do believe family play a very important role in handling this problems and at the same time helping in decreasing the percentage of baby abandonment. family break-up will lead to this getting-worse problems among teenagers. how do they take place? it is when they are in a chaotic family. almost teenagers cant cope with those arguments and fights, they will keep hanging out with their friends and collegues in order to have fun and releasing all their problems they're facing at home. in situation like this when parents always juz left thier responsibilities to their childrens.
in addition, religious education is necessary to all of us in our life. no matter what religion are we in, they are the same. without religion we will have no guidance in what we have to do and not to do. nowadays, we are focusing to0 much on our achievement in examination, daily activities and so on.but we always forget about the most important in our life..our religion. if we're fallowing the rite path, i can tell that all this social problems like this can be easily handled. or even dissappear at all.
but, all of factors contributing above will not give any meaning or a small impact at all if we ourselves have our very own conciousness and awareness of those problems. so,,all that is happening around are actually come from ourselves. try not to blame others. look at ourselves first. ok? ;)
.nur.alia.omar.
I think, the most important factors that should have been given attention is the today's free-sex lifestyle that our teenagers dun take it as serious.they think there will no problems will be created becoz of dat. all is about getting towards their slut. what a shame. hm maybe there are some of us say like 'maybe they are immatured'. what the point of saying that..? i dun think that can be a good reason to argue with why do they behave like dat. even a 13 years old child alredy know that free-sex lifestyle is an unhealthy one.
then, i do believe family play a very important role in handling this problems and at the same time helping in decreasing the percentage of baby abandonment. family break-up will lead to this getting-worse problems among teenagers. how do they take place? it is when they are in a chaotic family. almost teenagers cant cope with those arguments and fights, they will keep hanging out with their friends and collegues in order to have fun and releasing all their problems they're facing at home. in situation like this when parents always juz left thier responsibilities to their childrens.
in addition, religious education is necessary to all of us in our life. no matter what religion are we in, they are the same. without religion we will have no guidance in what we have to do and not to do. nowadays, we are focusing to0 much on our achievement in examination, daily activities and so on.but we always forget about the most important in our life..our religion. if we're fallowing the rite path, i can tell that all this social problems like this can be easily handled. or even dissappear at all.
but, all of factors contributing above will not give any meaning or a small impact at all if we ourselves have our very own conciousness and awareness of those problems. so,,all that is happening around are actually come from ourselves. try not to blame others. look at ourselves first. ok? ;)
.nur.alia.omar.
Friday, August 13, 2010
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