Friday, October 29, 2010

Causes Of Abandoned Babies

EXTREME CELEBRATION OF EVENTS
The occasions were celebrated in an extreme manner and encouraged liberal socializing and free sex, which resulted in the act of dumping babies. the celebrations, which originated from the West, did not “sit well with our country’s traditions Eg : Valentine’s day , birthday party , etc.

SEXUAL ABUSE
Dumped their babies often because they felt betrayed and used by their child's father to be pregnant as a result of sexual abuse, baby when born is some times disposed off after or even before birth.

LACK OF SEX KNOWLEDGE
Poor knowledge on reproductive health like menstrual cycle and healthcare during pregnancy. Usage of contraceptive

LOOSE SOCIAL PROBLEM
Social control system was loosening up due to high phase of modernisation and development neighbourliness, which should become an agent of social control to curtail social ills, was also waning. Schools are no longer sensitive to what is happening in the social and physical environment of their students as they are engrossed in examination result

POOR PARENTAL MODELLING
Don’t give full attention to their children as today many parents are expect their children are good enough too busy with their jobs Conflict in the family kicked out of youth to find a place and friends can help overcome life

PORNOGRAPHY
Easy access to pornography Eg : Internet , cyber dating, 3D games, pirate CDs Teenagers easily influenced

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Ohh Babe ... What HAppen

No study has been done in Malaysia to determine the real causes of teenage pregnancies. But the famous reasons given are the lack of sex education and the internet. Statistic from National Registration Department reveal that between 2000 and 2008, about 257 000 babies were registered without the names of their fathers on the birth certificates. This means average 88 babies were born out of wedlock each day during these nine years. Another statistic from Women Ministry revealed cases of abandoned babies numbered 407 over the past five year. But these statistic cannot tell us the full story yet, WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE !!!

They Need Help, Not Punisment

It take two people to produce a baby. why is the man absolved of responsibility. Why about counselling for the father, teaching them to be more responsible. The goverment has directed police to classify baby dumping, leading to the death of the child, as murder. And who the murderer be? the unwed teen mother of course, the father gets free, this is so unjustice. Perhaps there is something to be learned, mothers who dump babies need help, NOT JAIL !!!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

solutions that might help

in solving all of this chaos n problems, i think we r all holding a big,important responsibility. yes,each of us.baby abandonment is now a big matter that rily need attention.

for the government,including mass media n so on..all the entertainment which can lead to social problems like this should be banned from being published.the same goes to all the clubs and pubs.all those who r selling the liquor without liscence also should be punished.cooperation with all the religion agency is also important in handling this problem.
praying campaign also seems good to be held among islam students as in islam, praying is one of method to avoid the wrong and sinfull things.

in family intitutiones,each members in the family should have a very strong relationship with each others.this will not make teenagers nowadays go and find another entertainment outside as they feel there r no happiness in the house among the family.teenagers nowadays are very influenced by their frenz and collegues.they r now in time to have as much fun as they can without thinking of the risks at all.not enough attention and love from the parents and family,,that what makes baby abandonment increasing day by day.as they r free to make frenz wif anyone else.

so that's how we all can help in handling this problems of baby abandonment that seems like have no way out.i hope all of us will take part playing our own role helping those in needed.